True, I’m old enough to remember how proper diesel smelled like. What we have now is mixes, refined and full of all sorts of detergents, that might clean your fuel rail but shouldn’t be burned, also low sulphur so there’s no good lubrication on piston/rings/cylinder wall.
DPF itself is good enough and with adblue/DEF it’s cleaner than most petrol engines.
EGR as mentioned (cooling/ efficiency(lower burned volume) can be replaced with water methanol injection , which will have same effect (less NOx) .
I would never touch the DPF as it does the job of keeping my backside clean and smelling good
Do you add two stroke oil to your diesel? I would suggest to do it, your piston rings will thank you. Would not do it on modern diesels but older ones have no issue with it.